We have already heard about the female G-spot. They opened it, looked hard for it, couldn't find it, and (probably out of frustration) questioned its existence.
Once the buzz has died down a bit, here you go! - there are rumors that even men have G spots!
By the way, it is much easier to find it.
What is this?
The male G spot is often called the P spot. The "P" stands for the prostate.
Remember that the prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just below the bladder.
The P spot is not only responsible for orgasms, but also aids in reproduction by producing seminal fluid and helping sperm to live long and thrive after being expelled from the penis.
How to find?
Two ways - inside and outside. You can search for the G spot in any way - a man will get amazing sensations in any case. It all depends on the degree of trust between the partners.
- Inside. This point is located two centimeters from the entrance to the anus. Approximately at the level of the first joint of the finger.
- Externally, the prostate can also be stimulated through the perineum. The skin between the scrotum and anus is literally filled with nerve endings. This should not be forgotten during oral sex.
How to stimulate the prostate?
First - dialogue
It is unlikely that a man will be happy if his other half suddenly decides to start such experiments. Some people are very scrupulous about everything related to anal play. Therefore, dialogue comes first.
It is very important to treat each other with respect and remember that not everyone can feel the same things. If your ex-partner liked such techniques, this does not mean that the current husband will enjoy it.
Equipment
In order for the search for the P point to bring maximum pleasure to both partners, you need to prepare. You will need:
greasing
Any anal sex is impossible without lubricant. Choose a high-quality lubricant, such as a silicone-based one.
condom
Where the anus is, there are bacteria. Yeah, not very romantic, but that's life. Don't forget to put a condom or latex glove on your finger.
Anal toys
Choose according to your taste. They will add excitement.
Do not forget!
HANDS
Hands should be washed well, and nails should be rounded and trimmed. Infections and injuries aren't part of your plans, are they?
Create a mood
The man should be calm and sexually excited. Hot bath, sensual massage, caress - don't skimp on foreplay.
Let's get down to business
The man is calm and you are ready to start looking for that magic spot?
But don't rush things - start with external stimulation.
Try this:
- Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub and stroke the perineum.
- Experiment, alternate different speeds and intensities.
- With the other hand, stroke the penis and scrotum.
If you are ready to continue:
- Apply the lubricant to your finger and slowly insert it into the anus 2 - 5 cm.
- Feel carefully to find the prostate. It should feel smooth and round to the touch.
- Once you feel it, start making gentle "come here" movements with your finger.
- Ask a man about his feelings. The speed, the intensity - does it all suit him?
- Add to the process a caress of the hands or a blowjob - a powerful orgasm is guaranteed for the man.
Reminder to receiving party
The first thing you should do is relax. Only in this case you can get maximum satisfaction. And:
- Talk. About your feelings and the limits of what is allowed.
- The toilet. Stimulation of the prostate and anal penetration can cause the urge to urinate and defecate. With such a combination it is difficult to relax. A must is to visit the toilet (and take a bath) before matches.
- Comfort. Create all the conditions for yourself. Let nothing distract you.
- Enjoy. Everything that happens should bring you pleasure. Ask your significant other to use more (less) lube, use sex toys, change positions and don't shut up if something goes wrong.
Pozo
You can choose any position in which both partners will be comfortable. But you can start with one of these:
- Face down. The man lies on his stomach and spreads his legs slightly. The partner places a pillow under the hips and sits behind him.
- Doggy. He gets on all fours, his partner is behind him.
- On the side of. The man lies on his side with one knee pressed to his chest. The partner lies from behind so that it is comfortable to stimulate the partner's anus.
I did not like it
This is good. There is nothing about sex that absolutely everyone likes. Maybe it's not your thing.
If both partners are interested in continuing the experiment, you can try again. And so, by trial and error, find a technique that both would like. Experiment with positions, sex toys and the amount of lube.
Satisfaction map
There are still a bunch of "hot spots" on a man's body, which many people for some reason forget about. An unforgivable omission!
Pay attention to areas such as:
- The head of the penis. This area is filled with nerve endings. Touching, licking, sucking - use them all. Especially during prostate play. Do not forget about lubrication.
- Frenum This is an elastic fold of skin that connects the lower part of the head of the penis to the foreskin. Insanely sensitive. Competent manipulation of the frenulum will give a man a powerful orgasm. The frenulum can be stimulated with the tongue or the thumb of your free hand.
- The scrotum. Prostate massage combined with scrotal massage will give a man maximum pleasure. Connect a vibrating toy to the process.
P. S. You can do without sex toys, aromatic candles and erotic music. But it will not be possible without faith and relaxation. Focus on what's important.
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Many men categorically refuse to stimulate the G-spot. Moreover, a large number of guys do not even know what the prostate is and where it is located! This shame must be corrected - try to gradually free the man in bed and do not give up experiments. No one says to get a huge dildo and follow a man around the bedroom with it. Carefully, gradually go down to the area under the testicles - this can be done during a blowjob. Try different stimulation techniques and monitor the man's reaction. It is unlikely that he will refuse - he will definitely like it. And then you can go straight to the G spot.
The G spot in men: where it is and how to stimulate it correctly
According to the Greeks, the mysterious G spot in men is the second heart. This poetic name is due to the fact that from this point the whole process of awakening begins. If you specifically affect this area, you can achieve a lively orgasm. To satisfy a man, it is not enough just to find the "magic button". You need to learn how to stimulate it correctly.
What is meant by the G spot in young people?
A man's G-spot is the prostate gland, the stimulation of which causes the muscles to contract. Thanks to this, the boy is able to get many vivid sensations. Such an orgasm is much more vivid than the one that appears in a young man during the stimulation of the genital organ.
The male G-spot is a real find for kinky pleasure. But to activate the magic button, you need to know where to look for it.
Where is the erogenous spot and how to find it
To give your partner a powerful orgasm, you need to know where the precious G spot is in men. Its location is very interesting. If a boy's penis is out, then the precious "button" is located in the area between the rectum and the pubic bones. It has the shape of a walnut or chestnut, occupies about 4 cm2 of surface and weighs no more than 20 g.
In all men, the arousal point G is located below the bladder - in the upper part of the urethra. To detect it, you need to penetrate the anus to a depth of 5-7 cm. As soon as you feel a small swelling, you can consider that the goal has been achieved.
Men are often embarrassed to ask for the G-spot for fear of being labeled as lovers of same-sex love. To get real pleasure, you have to get rid of this stereotype. There is nothing wrong with learning and using the magic pea. You need to learn how to stimulate her correctly and then sex with your beloved woman will take on new colors.
How to properly stimulate the area
In order for the G point to provide maximum pleasure, it is necessary to properly prepare for the stimulation process. To do this you need:
- Clean the rectum with a laxative or enema.
- Work on trust as a couple. If you ignore this stage of preparation, the boy will not be able to relax and in the end he will only have painful sensations.
- The girl should cut her long nails. If you accidentally injure the inner mucosa of a man, this will lead to the formation of inflammation.
- In order for G-spot stimulation to occur without unpleasant consequences, strict adherence to hygiene rules is required. Before the procedure, you should wash your hands with soap and then put on disposable medical gloves.
- During stimulation, sexologists advise the use of a special intimate lubricant, which will facilitate the penetration of the woman's fingers into the anus. It's called lubricant. The more there is, the better. It is advisable to choose a lubricant with lidocaine, a substance that helps reduce discomfort. But it is important to remember that the analgesic effect of the lubricant begins after 10-15 minutes.
- In order for the G-spot examination to be painless, the young person should take a comfortable position. A good option is the lying position: the boy is on his back, and the girl is between her legs.
With your hand
When the man has taken a comfortable position, the girl should warm his body with a massage. The partner should go to her lover's scrotum and massage the testicles and anus in a circular motion. Conventionally, this area is considered the external G-spot in men and boys.
To distract your partner, you can use oral sex. You need to insert your fingers into the anus carefully and slowly, as if you were driving a screw. This will allow you to distribute skin folds without causing any traumatic effect and increasing pleasant sensations.
Once you've managed to find the G-spot, you shouldn't turn it into a stuck button or lever. The girl should imagine that there is a clitoris under her finger, which should be lightly pressed and stroked using gentle circular movements. When a man approaches climax, sexologists recommend rhythmically pressing the G-spot approximately 1 time per 1 second.
Use of special equipment
You can give pleasure to your lover with the help of sex toys. They allow you to influence both the external and internal "pea".Modern erotic toys include:
- anal vertebrae;
- vibration stimulator;
- dildos.
Sexologists recommend the use of anal beads for untrained men. To do this, they must be placed in the anus and not removed until the end of intimacy with the lady.
When the orgasm is "on the verge", the woman should start to release 1 ball at a time. This will give a man immense pleasure. When the boy gets used to such intimate games, you can bring other devices to bed. They should be used in the same way as fingers.
Precautions and contraindications
Not all men can be affected by the prostate. There are a number of contraindications for this type of intimate caress.These include the following diseases:
- hemorrhoids;
- chronic inflammation of the prostate gland, as well as acute prostatitis;
- polyps;
- problems with urination;
- inflammatory processes in the rectum.
If during anal stroking mistakes are made in the stimulation technology, hygiene rules are not taken into account and contraindications are ignored, then infections will occur in the prostate and inflammatory processes will worsen. Before an intimate experiment, it is advisable to consult a doctor.
G-spot stimulation in young men is not only a pleasant procedure, but also a useful procedure that has a beneficial effect on men's health. Don't be shy about exploring your body. The more pleasure points to find, the better.
G-spot massage: everything for men and women, effective techniques
Understanding true lust from intimacy is impossible without carefully studying the erogenous zones of both your partner and yourself. This knowledge will give you the opportunity to get the greatest pleasure. The G spot plays an important role in finding and studying erogenous zones. Anyone who wants to get the most out of intimacy should learn how to massage the G-spot.
A few words about the history of the G-spot
Sexuality has been studied mainly from a woman's point of view. For the male body, it was previously believed that the onset of orgasm and ejaculation is the greatest pleasure from sex, although later they revised their views. Around the 80s of last year, sexologists (mainly in Western countries) began to meet more and more patients who experienced a jet (or syringe) orgasm.
Such women describe their sensations as multiple orgasms (in a short time), powerful and vivid. However, a few decades ago, in 1950, the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg talked about a special area in the female genital organs, the stimulation of which led to increased sexual desire and rapid orgasm, as well as the release of fluids as a result.
Some time later, after the death of the scientist, this area began to be called for short - point G. In some sources you can also find such a description - point j, which is the definition of the same thing.
Much later, scientists determined that a similar area exists not only in women, but also in men. In other words, a man can get a stronger and brighter orgasm if a certain area is stimulated during caresses.
The location of the G spot in women
This is one of the most common questions people ask. To begin with, you need to understand that you should not look for a "point" or "pea", as many believe, but an area, an area. This area is located in the vagina, on the front wall, approximately 3-5 cm from the entrance to it. This area is not located directly on the wall, but as if inside it, that is, it is not the mucosa that should be stimulated, but the tissues located deeper.
To further understand the location of the g-spot in women, it is necessary to locate the ureter. Closer to the exit of urine from the ureter, right around it, are the Skene glands (or paraurethral glands), which are responsible for the most lustful sensations. If the girl is lying on her back, then the area itself will be located directly under the pubis and clitoris.
You can try to feel this area by palpation, that is, feel it with your fingers. To do this, the woman lies on her back. The male turns his hand with the palm facing and carefully inserts 1 or 2 fingers into the partner's vagina. Now you should carefully probe the front surface of your partner's vagina with your fingertips. After 3-5 cm from the entrance, you can feel some lumps and roughness. For some, the surface of the area even resembles the sky in the mouth. The inner tissue of this area is the desired G-spot.
G-spot stimulation in women
There are several ways to stimulate this area. Some require the presence of a partner, others can be performed independently, and others require the mandatory use of special equipment (sex toys). So, here are the most common methods:
Using your fingers
This is the simplest and most accessible way. You can use your fingers to stimulate the desired area either alone or in the presence of a partner, which will excite both. A man can also massage his partner's G-spot, which will allow him to track the degree of her arousal and literally control the entire process, speeding up or slowing down certain stages of stimulation.
So your hands must be clean, because the basic rules of hygiene are literally the safety of your partner and yourself. It's a good idea to have some lube on hand because lubrication always reduces friction and improves sliding. Meanwhile, some couples avoid lubrication because they believe it reduces sensitivity.
In any case, the girl must be excited, which means that this process must include foreplay (any kind - kissing, touching and even cunnilingus). Only when the partner is literally wet "down there", you can start stimulating the G-spot. The finger must be inserted carefully, probing every millimeter inside.
Once you have found the desired area, you should intensify the massaging movements, pressing lightly towards the skin. The finger is constantly looking up. If everything is done correctly, the likelihood that your partner will have an orgasm soon is very high.
During sexual intercourse
Surprisingly, stimulating the G-spot in women during sex is not as easy as it may seem. Here you should consider as many positions as possible for relationships. The angle of penetration should be such that the desired area is constantly exposed to friction from the head of the partner's penis.
For example, the most famous missionary position in the classic version is not suitable for the desired goals, because penetration occurs from top to bottom, and not vice versa. To stimulate the G-spot, you should raise your partner's pelvis slightly so that her pubis is at the same level as the man's hip area. In this state, the angle of penetration will be "vertical", which means that the G-spot will be naturally stimulated by the head of the penis.
Everyone's favorite doggy style pose also needs a little tweaking. A man should not lean on his knees, but stand with his legs slightly bent. His pelvis will be slightly higher than the level of his partner's vagina and the head of the penis will rest only on the front wall of the vagina, where the desired area is located. Finally, there is one more position for those women who love the "on top" position.
In this case, you should position yourself by turning 180 degrees towards your partner, so that the man's head is between the girl's legs and she rests her elbows on the surface of the bed. The front parts of the partners' bodies look up and their faces look at each other. Here the area is stimulated by the outer edge of the head of the penis. Here the woman herself regulates and controls the process, which means that she is able to get the most vivid orgasm.
Use of sex toys
Everything is very simple here. In specialized stores you can find devices, most often dildos, in which the end is slightly bent upwards, which contributes to a more expressive effect in the desired area. Such devices can have additional characteristics - rotation, vibration, different textures and shapes, as well as modes. You can also perform stimulation using them independently or with a partner.
Prostate stimulation: what kind of organ is it?
The prostate is located under the urinary bladder at the beginning of the urethra behind the pubic bone. It has a major role in sexual, reproductive function and the act of urination. First of all, the prostate gland produces a fluid that makes sperm watery and mobile. By studying the topic of how to stimulate a man's prostate, you can help relieve him of excess fluid and improve erection.
It is considered the male G spot
Although the existence of this very point has been questioned (a reliable version is the inner part of the clitoris), it is important to understand that the prostate is also considered the "orgasm button". It is even called the second male heart. Once you learn how to stimulate his prostate so that he can cum, you will be able to completely conquer him and surprise him a lot.
Initially, the massage had a medical purpose, but men soon realized that it brings great pleasure. The excitement from G-spot stimulation relaxes the partner and maintains the erection. Applying the knowledge of how and where exactly to stimulate the prostate helps to achieve a powerful and fast orgasm.
It's not that deep
The accessory reproductive gland is located behind the anal wall towards the navel, a few centimeters from the sphincter. About three quarters of a finger deep into the anus, that is, it is quite possible to reach it. Prostate stimulation should be very careful because of the high sensitivity.
Why should you stimulate the prostate?
Even if a man has a rough idea of how to stimulate the prostate for pleasure, there are other important reasons for this. So, for what purposes is massage needed:
- Improves blood circulation in the pelvic organs and blood circulation in the prostate gland.
- The outflow of lymph and secretions from the prostate, the elimination of congestion, the reduction of swelling due to fluid accumulation, the mitigation of the symptoms of prostatitis, for its treatment and prevention.
- Strengthening the muscles of the prostate gland.
- Strengthening of erection and increased power, sexual desire.
- It accelerates the penetration of drugs into the gland.
How to massage the prostate
Ideally, you should consult a doctor and watch a video on how to stimulate a man's prostate. Despite the beneficial effects, the procedure can cause pain and even harm to the chosen one. But with skilled and careful treatment, prostate massage will only be useful.
Discuss details
As with everything related to sex, you need your partner's consent for any manipulation. This is the expansion of your intimate boundaries and the realization of sexual fantasies. If you are close enough, you can try this forbidden fruit.
Take it with a smile
There's no need to turn prostate stimulation into an event of unbelievable proportions. What's more, you don't even have to stick your fingers in! When discussing with your partner how to stimulate the prostate, you can experiment.
For example, it will be easier to implement your plan in the knee-elbow position or on your side, preferably on the right. The knees should come closer to the stomach. In this position it is easier to relax the desired area. Another way to better stimulate the prostate externally is to massage the area around the anus or touch it with the tongue. Either do that part of oral sex while your hands are busy with the penis, or pay attention to the area between the penis and the scrotum (indirect stimulation). There are many ways to achieve the desired result.
Relax
both! Have the man lie on his back if he doesn't want to lift his pelvis up and you position yourself between his legs. When you feel he's ready, gently insert your finger into his anus and start stimulating your man or boyfriend's prostate.
If your fingers encounter obstacles during the massage, take your time and wait until it relaxes properly. Maybe run your lips or fingertips over his body. In this case, guys also need foreplay. Even sexologists recommend not to start sexual intercourse with this. It is better to start the massage when both of you are already quite "warmed up" and the orgasm is close.
But if you are so liberated and curious, it is not forbidden to try different variations, at the beginning, in the middle or towards the end.